Irregular Lovemaking After Only Two Months of Marriage

My wife and I just married over two months ago. My problem is that we make love less than three times a week . My wife always complains of tiredness. I know her job is mainly part but I am not happy.

I want to make love more. We have been advised of dutiful sex during counseling but she will not adhere to it. Your advise please.

 

Hello My Friend,

 

Thank you for seeking online marriage counseling through our website. 3 times a week is ok. How many times do you want? Daily? Come on!


4 Responses so far.

  1. PRISCY MAWUSE says:

    Hi man but if you make love once or twice a week i think it cool and normal, remember a woman has a lot to do in her family before geting to bed. And in your case she is working so my brother please try hard and be satisfied with what she gives you ok. You are lucky man in a millons since some women will not even alow you for some weeks unless they feel for it. So you i think you should try and understand your wife please. A time will come making love to your wife will not be a problem if you understand her ok.

  2. Chantelle Iris says:

    I think this issue is very common with most marriages these days.but the thing is, you need to exercise patience and bear with your wife. as you mentioned, her work most often leaves her worn out and all and going through all this, lovemaking will surely be the last thing on her mind when she gets home. i think you guys need to talk and work this issue out. shes your wife and you need to communicate your needs and feelings to her. if possible you guys can even come to an agreement on how many times you can actually make love which best suits your schedules.
    sex in marriage is an essential and vital part of that marriage.it can make or break the marriage if care is not taken. be sure to talk to your wife and make her understand your needs.i pray all goes well for you.

  3. Bethwel Bright says:

    Sex is vital in a relationship and you seem to get kinda enough of it. Two times in a week aint that bad. As much as ur wife is tired she still gives you access. Think about this way; if you keep having sex regularly, like lets say 5 times in every week. You gonna grow tired of it and it will bore you. The interval you both have is cool. Others go months without it and they are in worse situation. Yours is far better off..

  4. mamagee says:

    my dear, you said her job takes most of her time and sincerely you know she will get tired, please spare her if she is not in the mood sometimes okay…hmm the issue of sex is pinnacle of marriage.please communicate your feelings with your wife.both can even make some adjustment to suits your schedules.wish you all the best.


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