I’m Dating a Married Man

I have been dating a married man for 6 months now. I did not know that he was married for the first month of the dating but was told that he wasn’t happy and was trying to get things in order so he could leave.

He was supposedly leaving last week when he got into some trouble and he is now back at home. He says he is leaving and has even talked about finding a house for us but that he doesn’t know how to leave his wife and kids.

I have not pushed at all. I feel guilt for what his wife and kids are going through but he makes me happy and he says I make him happy so I am so lost. I don’t know whether to leave him alone or keep waiting…


2 Responses so far.

  1. Bethwel Bright says:

    Leave him alone. How would you feel if you were in his wife’s shoes? Having kids also. How would you feel dear, ask yourself. Married and some other lady is making out with your husband.
    Fine the mighy have problems but still, thats left for them to solve.
    I will say the man is just using you to release stress.
    For if he is madly in love with you as he might claim. He should deal with his problems at home, if it still aint working out, he should get divorced(not cos you asked him to tho) first and then you both can date and live happily.

    If you continue seeing him while he is still married, you gotta blame yourself for their problems.


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