I Still Want Ex Boyfriend

I have been friends with this boy for a long time now and i really liked him. One day he asks me out and we start dating. Recently, he started behaving very weird. He won’t reply to my messages and won’t call me.

Now he broke up with me and said he never wants to speak to me again. I want to accept that he doesn’t like me anymore but i want him to at least talk to me and i don’t feel like i’ll ever get over him. If he asks me out again in three years, i think i’ll still say yes. I’m really sad but my friends tell me to just accept that it’s over but i’m still hopeful that he might say it’s just a joke.

Advice on I still want Ex Boyfriend

Move on. There are many guys out there who will love to have you as their girlfriend. Why waste time on such a guy? He doesn’t love you and don’t lower your standard by treating him as God. Who the hell is he? Even if he comes back after three years you’ll accept him? Am sad to hear this.

He just left without any reason (at least you didn’t mention) and you’re still waiting on him? Set out and make new friends and you’ll definitely find a man who truly loves you. These articles will help How to Deal With Breakups and What to do after a breakup

All the best


4 Responses so far.

  1. Chantel Iris says:

    It can be difficult, but you have to let go. If he doesn’t want you anymore, my dear, just pick up the little pride you have left and go before people start thinking you don’t know your worth.
    whatever happened between you guys might have been very painful for him to handle, thus his behavior. if he loves you despite everything, he’ll surely come back for you. trust me. but if he’s over you there’s pretty much nothing you can do to bring him back. so just move on.

  2. Bright Bethwel says:

    My dear. Look elsewhere. Waiting for him to come back,apologize and then you accept him back, what impression do you create for yourself then? He will know you are too much into him and if he doesn’t really love you like you do. He will just want to use you. He will keep going and coming knowing perfectly well that you are down for him and as many times as he fools around, you still going take him back. Be a hardcore a little and stop worrying about him. Yes, he might have hjs reasons for leaving, but until he comes and makes those reasons known and changes, don’t bother yourself to worry too much. Relationship is a mutual agreement. So you simply can’t toil with one’s feelings and then expect to go and come back and meet what you left behind. There are many guys out there willing to adore you.
    Just take your mind off him fot sometime and watch how things play out.

  3. Bright Bethwel says:

    My dear. Look elsewhere. Waiting for him to come back,apologize and then you accept him back, what impression do you create for yourself then? He will know you are too much into him and if he doesn’t really love you like you do. He will just want to use you. He will keep going and coming knowing perfectly well that you are down for him and as many times as he fools around, you still going take him back. Be a hardcore a little and stop worrying about him. Yes, he might have hjs reasons for leaving, but until he comes and makes those reasons known and changes, don’t bother yourself to worry too much. Relationship is a mutual agreement. So you simply can’t toil with one’s feelings and then expect to go and come back and meet what you left behind. There are many guys out there willing to adore you.
    Just take your mind off him for sometime and watch how things play out.

  4. Tijani says:

    I understand your feelings about his behaviour but my experience or knowledge about human being have made me undestand that, they are some category of human being who are like that, they get fed up with people in a little time, so all i will say to you is to exercise some patience, if hes for you he will come back and if he does you make use of that opportunity, and if he doesnt then life must go on, afterall there are numerous guys out there seeking for someone like you.
    take care and stay blessed


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