Should We Divorce or Forgive

My husband and I have only been married a year and he has anger issues and doesn’t hit me but I have been shoved and pushed down. This happened recently in a very bad fight and I got shoved down only by this time I am 4 months pregnant with his twins.

He also left and called the police on me turning everything around as if I am at fault. Now I am facing a cdv 2nd degree charge, fines, possible jail time and he is being labeled as the victim and I the defendant.

I have never had a record ever until this and now I have three court dates and all this on me while he has nothing. I even ended up in the hospital the day it happened. I don’t know what to do I love my husband and I wish this was all a nightmare. Can we fix this or is it time to call it quits?

Marriage Counseling on Should We Divorce?

Your husband pushed you down whiles pregnant and called the police on you? Now you’re facing a possible jail time with this pregnancy all because of the man you call your husband? And your question is should you divorce? I’m speechless.

No don’t divorce, wait until he kills you! ¬†What are you waiting for? You should love but not at the point of putting your life at a total risk. When you’re in jail he’ll be rolling with another girl and having all the fun. Your husband don’t love you so don’t your energy loving him back. Forgive him and heal yourself, but don’t go back to him otherwise you’ll loose your life!

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2 Responses so far.

  1. Tijani says:

    hmm do you really think he love you, per what happened i don’t see love and care in your “husbands” eyes, how can he be heartless, you are pregnant for him and hes letting you pass through all that, wow.
    you must think twice before he wastes you and the babies,
    if you are thinking about how to raise or where to get help from in the cause of you anti-nertal then i will say don’t worry, God will provide, it better than going back to a man who can kill you when he gets the chance.
    take care and best wishes

  2. Bright Bethwel says:

    What reason do you need to divorce him? Or you are waiting for him to kill you first. If so, then please continue to be in the marriage.
    Divorce him ASAP! He has no respect for you nor does he think of your well being. If he did, he wouldn’t have dared to push you in such a delicate state.
    Get a good lawyer to defend you. What ever the outcome may be, don’t worry too much about it. Just divorce him as soon as you get the chances to.


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