He’s Giving Me Mixed Signals

So i’ve been going out/texting this guy for the past three months and we haven’t seen each other for 2 months because of things happening in our lives (work, vacation, etc). First we agreed we’ll meet after i get back from vacation but 2 weeks after i got back he never asked me out (I assumed he’s busy with work). And before he went on his trip he told me we would meet after he returns (a vague way of asking me out) he didn’t plan on anything or set an exact date. After he returned i decided to be the one to set a date and asked him to go to the beach together. His response was just Sure, Okay.

He didn’t show any effort to set a plan whatsoever. So i got frustrated and said “It’s fine if you don’t want to go, i could go with my friends”. THEN, he proposed a place to go to. A few days later he asked again “So we’re going right?” but he asked me if it’s alright that his friends are coming along. I don’t know if this is a good sign that he wants to introduce me to his friends or he just simply doesn’t want to go on a date with me and decided to bring his friends along. So what should i do?

Relationship Advice on Getting Mixed Signals from Guy

My dear friend, the guy is not giving you mixed signal. He’s giving you a clear signal that he’s not into you. No guy with interest in you will wait for 2 months and still not see you. Especially if you’re within reach.

It doesn’t mean you’re not good enough. What it means is that he’s not good enough for you. Rather be dating a guy who will show you love and give you attention than to be with someone you’ll have to beg for months to see.

Who the heck does he think he is? Some demi god? You’re worth more than that girl! Open up and mingle, you’ll meet a guy who will blow your mind. All the best

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