How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back

So you called it quits with your girlfriend and now you feeling it was not a good idea to have let her gone? You want her back in your life, but just don’t know how to get your ex girlfriend back strategy’? Well, I guess this is your lucky day! Below is a list of positive steps to take. Tag along and follow through with these simple steps, and you’ll get your ex girlfriend back.

How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back – Step 1

First, you need to begin with a re-connection strategy. Your ex girlfriend might have gone off for quite a while. So just barging in un-invited back into her life without any prior permission may put her off. It could ruin every dream you’ve thought of in getting her back.

So I propose you use this strategy by making use of a simple message. This tells your ex girlfriend you have have her in your thoughts. Think of something that reminded you of her, and text it to her.

How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back – Step 2

Now moving on to step number two…, move over from the simple text message zone into the ‘calling her zone’. At this point, she may have gotten your message, and is expecting you to call her. So call your ex girlfriend since chances of talking to her is higher. Now that can lay the foundation to start off in winning her back.

How to win back your ex girlfriend – Step 3

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How to get your ex girlfriend back in seven easy steps

Strategy three! Go on to tell her about how you feel and have been since the break. In doing this, try not to throw things over-board. Keep it real and simple, but at the same time bring out how you feel about the way you treated her.

Let your ex girlfriend know how you want things to be in the present circumstances. Don’t be too emotional about it, but if you get to break down in the process, don’t worry about it. It’s pretty normal. Every guy breaks down once a while, and in matters of the heart.., it’s no different.

Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back – Step 4

Progress now to laying your cards on the table. This stage provides you with the platform to bear out all you wish to achieve. Re-initiating a relationship with your ex- girlfriend is critical. Let her know what your true intentions are. Be sure to let her know she’s the one you want and feel remorse for hurting her the way you did. Attach some seriousness to wanting her back for real and let her know it’s no joke.

How to get your ex girlfriend back – Step 5

Own up to your shortcomings in the relationship, and apologizing for the pain caused. You broke her heart.., yes, but just assure her that you didn’t mean to. Maybe you were a jerk, fine, but you realized how empty your life is without her in the picture. Let your emotions show at this point, because it could do a lot to change her mind about taking you back.

Getting your ex back – Step 6

Do not to bring in the past while re-building your relationship with your ex girlfriend. That’s a NO-NO! Breaking her heart was just enough to kill her, but going on and on about what happened, could even kill her more. Just don’t go there! It won’t do you much good with her.

How to Get Your Ex-Girlfriend Back – Step 7


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Getting your ex girlfriend back can be very easy since the spark is already there

Getting your ex girlfriend back can be easy since the spark is already there

Forget about what happened while you two were apart…, who dated who or who slept with whom. It’s not important. The two of you thought you were never going to get back together because you tried fun stuff with other people. Who cares? It’s in the past and done. Don’t go worrying about all that, and definitely don’t discuss it with her either. It will only make you appear insecure and uncertain about yourself. Just let everything go and focus on winning her heart back.

No one ever feels happy when they get dumped by their partner. So winning her over could take a gradual process, but every step is worth the wait.   It’s not at all going to be easy. Some ex girlfriends will resist falling back into the arms of their ex boyfriend. Ex Girlfriends fear getting dumped again. But be determined to get back your ex girlfriend, it’s possible. Be positive about it and don’t let anybody dissuade you from doing just that.

How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back – by Chantelle Iris Nunoo.


8 Responses so far.

  1. nana says:

    to have let her gone? not to have let her go?,what a grammar

  2. priness says:

    Nana please don’t be too harsh. We all make mistakes. I just hope you are Mr. Perfect with no grammatical errors. Anyways, I think getting your ex-girlfriend back really depends on how you broke up. It could be you dumping her for a more attractive girl”make up girl”, since that is what most guys prefer or she leaving you for some reasons. So if you dumped her, it’s going to be much difficult since she will have this kind of hatred towards you but if she left on her one, it’s going to be much easier that is only if she still has some feelings for you. Both have different steps in getting her back. But generally, reconnecting with her through calls and a date will perfectly do. Through that you can apologize if you did hurt her and make your feelings known to her as well as letting her know how you have being since the break up.

    • barbara says:

      I agree with you Priness, we all do make mistakes because we are all not perfect like you said. If he left you then coming back to the girl will be a bit difficult.I left my ex because of his attitudes and now we are trying to work on ourselves to try and understand each other better, we read something on page and we realised that it’s not good to focus only on the mistakes but to also focus on how to deal and handle those mistakes.

  3. Jones says:

    Why do you really want to get back an ex girlfriend when the are many other girls in the world? Getting back to your ex girlfriend makes you come across as weak. If she dumped you, never go back for her. Only try to get your ex girlfriend back if you’re the one who dumped her!

  4. Rylex Donlee says:

    I has followed at least 5 of steps and their are few if not non results what to do. I really love her and i want her but some of these steps are to hard and my sister will get jealous.